Have you ever lost a friend because of small argue?

Been heard of many version of stories that my friends unfriend with his/her friends or turn away from their family because of a small small matter only(how I felt is really small matter only).This is human , some of us get to be very sensitive sometimes(I am one of them too), misunderstanding arise or just can't swallow the temper at that moment. Any of these reasons, they might cost us to lost someone.

Suddenly flash back a friend of mine, whom I felt sorry to. Still fresh in my mind, we were primary school best friends since standard 4. During standard 6, I wrote a letter to tell her that I will not as close with her as last time. She felt so angry and since that day we never talk anymore. The truth of writing that letter was one of our friends did not like us to be so close and I realized she felt guilty everytime when stuck between me and that friend. At last, I chose this way to avoid this problem. I were not happy since the day we did not talk. Fortunately, the last day in my primary school life, she wrote a letter to me that she already forgive me and knew why I did so. After read her letter, I cried out loudly. We hugged each other and cried. She cried sadly too because she knew I going to transfer to another school and will not same secondary school with her.

Well, during our secondary school life, we contacted each other through letter. The only way we can do so because at that time cell phone is not that trend yet. As time flew, we getting busy for our own life, having our own friends and then lose contact for years.

She is a friend that I really treasure of. If I have a time machine, I would like to get back to the happy and unforgettable moment with her. She is a special one for me. Get to know that she is living well and happy now, I feel glad too. During our uni life, I contacted her once and automatically we started to share our life too. I felt so warm that time. Although we are already not close as last time, but then this proved that she still took a little space in my heart. ♥

You see. This is the true experience I had. Do not lose your temper easily or because of those tiny reasons and turn away from the one you treasure of. I believe everyone will meet up due to God's arrangement and there is a hidden reason why you will meet this person.

Appreciation can make a day-even change a life, Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary
- Margaret Cousins

p/s: I really dislike those friends only take advantages and selfish one. I do not feel like talking to them once I don't have to. And what I shocked is among best friends, they can be seems close in others' eyes but actually they dislike and back stab each other. What is the point to be close together? I don't see it and I felt very scary to know those truth. I rather choose to see no evil, hear no evil and speak no evil after seeing this type of cases so much.